luni, 20 decembrie 2010

My upcoming book

In today's post I will talk about three main aspects of the book I`m about to publish, discuss them, and then answer your questions regarding any topic related to the book itself or other fields that are close to the main aspects that I approached.

The first one will be the "reason why". Everybody has to have a reason why they do something, so surely I had reason why I decided to wright this book. It`s not about the money as some of you may think, not even about the fame, because you don't get famous by selling book online. The main reason for doing these is because I took a look around me, at my friends, at others people that I relate to and even observed total strangers, in relationship with others of the opposite sex. My conclusions were astonishing, awkward and breath-taking to say the least. The way in which the human experience changes when in relation with some of opposite sex is amazing, the transformation is true and noticeable. If you have a good enough observation spirit you can truly see the ancestral behaviour of primates, mammals in any one of us.

The second aspect is related to helping people. Yes, I want to help you, not by giving you step-by-step instructions about how to pick up a partner, or how to behave in bed. I only wish to open your eyes to the simple fact that, our foundation is not as complex as our brain and heart leads us to believe. It`s the fact that we are humans and we think so much, that stand in the way between us and relational happiness. You might get the idea that "primal behaviour" is only appropriate for people that live in a cave somewhere isolate from civilization, but trust me, what gets you to become a main actor instead of just an extra, is the inner workings of the male-female ancestral mechanisms.

The third aspect, what I expect from this. Well, my main goal is the help people discover and acknowledge something that they have within themselves, help them master a way of using it and keeping that alive until the day they pass away. Until next time, I`ll leave you with a taught to reflect on: "No problem can withstand the assault of sustained thinking." - Voltaire.

joi, 16 decembrie 2010

Christmas love making: Short guide part 1.

The Christmas-New Year's period produces a year-high spike in sexual activity and conceptions in the United States, according to biorhythm researchers and makers of sex-related products.
They attribute the increase to holiday leisure and New Year's resolutions to have children. New Year's irresolution fueled by alcohol and partying is another contributing factor.
But I do believe that sex, in its many forms, can provide a kind of protective effect against the ravages of the holiday season.
Speaking of cleaning up...regardless of how open you want to be, if you’re having house guests, or traveling with your cell phone, laptop, or iPod, you should probably put the porn videos away. Nothing against porn, or even holiday porn consumption, but being exposed to pornography should be consensual, and flipping open your niece's laptop to check movie times probably isn’t the time you want to learn about her talents as an amateur pornographer.

Christmas doesn’t have to mean no sex, even if you have limited privacy and time. The real trick is to maximize what you’ve got, and practice lots of quiet sex techniques. Sex over the holidays may not be the transcendent experience it is when you’re on vacation on a deserted beach, but with a little imagination, planning, and discretion, you can keep your sex life going right through to New Year’s Eve. The best part about this is that you can start practicing now, and consider it homework for the holidays. 

miercuri, 15 decembrie 2010

Merry Christmas Love Poems



Christmas is a time that brings you closer to your loved ones. The festive spirit becomes an added reason for you to make your special someone realize that how important he or she is to you. Presents for your loved ones are one of the options you have, but to make the occasion more romantic, it would be ideal that you also recite Christmas Love poems for your beloved. This is one of the most romantic ways you can make your beloved feel extra special. The Christmas love poems highlight your love and signify that he or she is so special that you wish to celebrate Christmas with him or her every year. Given here are some Christmas love poems, you can put to use on the festive eve.

Merry Christmas to the One I Love
By Nicholas Gordon

Merry Christmas to the one I love,
Even on this day of love for all,
Remembering the love of one whose call
Redeemed all those whose hearts his love might move.
Yet only one love does my spirit prove,
Chosen in a passion like a squall,
Having in such ecstasy withal
Rejoiced in what we were created of.
In such love do we find our way outdoors,
So to be drawn to love of flesh and soul,
Traveling beyond our village green,
Moving towards the wash along our shores
As our love joins the greater love unseen,
Shining with dark passion on the whole.

duminică, 12 decembrie 2010

Passion, and its relationship with the inner core. Part 2.


A couple of weeks ago I started a discussion regarding passion and what it symbolises to the human being and the society we live in. I concluded that passion is what drives the spirit and the body in creating. If you didn’t know already, the main characteristic that separates us from the rest of the primates is our ability to invent, to create, our ability to use tools for our own good.

According to many, passion is not a necessary attribute to have on the road to success. Many argue that work ethics and strong virtues are more important than being passionate about everything you do. In my own opinion these characteristics come second after what I consider to be the strongest point that one can have. Work ethics comes with practice, strong virtues are taught by society, family and the environment, while passion is something that has to be understood, embraced and used properly in order for this to be a decisive and coherent property of that which wishes to have success.

Animals can not be passionate, robots and computers also lack this ability, to attach emotional feeling to a material thing in order to cover it with an aura of ‘personification’, a link between reality and spirituality that leads to improving and creating extraordinary things.

The great Oscar Wilde once said, ‘Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.’ The greatest learning that one can have from here is that passion is strongly tied with your sense of self, with the main attributes that make a person human and that give it the defying characteristics of what it will become.

marți, 7 decembrie 2010

Five sex-places for the freak in you. Part 2.

Welcome back to “Five sex-places for the freak in you. Part 2.”. In the previous article we discussed about five places where you could get your groove on with no regard for human life, and have a dandy experience while doing it.

Today, I`m going to get through yet another five of these, hoping that my perspectives will open new opportunities for you guys.

No. 1 - The office. After leaving hours, in the lunch break, during working hours. Anything goes at the office. Get your secretary going under the desk, get your boss screaming or just one of your co-workers, dirty in the bathroom, like in those porn movies


No. 2 - A rooftop. Trust me, outdoorsy sex is the way to go if you want nature to give you a boost. Open air, skyline and the sound of the suburbs or even the noise of the city, can get you pushing like you never did before.


No. 3 - A playground. Don’t mind the kids, you’ll be doing it after dark, when the kids are not there. Or if you that crazy, you can do it while the kids are still playing. Just climb one of those fancy slides, hide inside an over-sized doll house or just do it in plain sight while sitting on a swing. Your choice there.


No. 4 - The train/plane bathroom. Everyone has got to this at least once in their life. No exception.



No. 5 - At the cinema. This is getting so used and popular that it’s not even that special to be worth mentioning. If you didn’t try it until now, here are a few tips. Get tickets to a boring, dull or romantic movie. Get you and your partner sitting in the back rows or front most rows of the cinema. Get going :)

miercuri, 1 decembrie 2010

Five sex-places for the freak in you. Part 1.

   Hey guys, nice to have you here for yet another ‘episode’. Today we are going to discuss and review the 5 best scenarios and locations to have sex.

   
   First we are going to start by shortly presenting the large idea on which this post is based. Life has a habit of knocking you about in the most awkward situations, when it comes to relationships and love. Some of them tend to be embarrassing some of them tend to be exciting while others are plain crazy. Here I will present a top 5 list of the most “out of the ordinary” but still most used places to get freaky with someone. 



   No.1 - The club bathroom: It`s usage is blamed by many, but still much more use it as days go by. Everyone knows that situations appear when you have a good round of drinks, meet someone and don’t have the necessary attitude to take him/her home. There are times when you just want someone to ‘blow your whistle’ and after that keep drinking with your friends afterwards instead of having to deal with it all night long. You get the point. 



   No.2 - The woods. The only disadvantage might be that you have to be on your feet all time long. Or maybe take the risk of sitting into some poison ivy and get a nasty rash. Also, crawlers and bugs are a no no for any kind of ‘let`s go happy’ trip. The best part of it is that you can hear nature’s call and enjoy the scenery and the fresh air. 



   No.3 - The closet. I know, I know.. kind of tight and dark, but still, trust me, a good choice for anyone who searches new experiences and most of all, positions. You’ll discover the yoga master in you after this one. Tip: get at least part of the clothes out before starting, if you don’t want several trips to the cleaner.



   No.4 - The public bus. She has to wear a skirt and sit on your lap. It`s tons of fun. I think I’ve said enough. 



   No.5 - The beach (including the sea here). Best place to take your romance if you have a site like this near you. The beach can be quiet and romantic, when using it at night, or in remote locations, but it can also be crowded and erotic, maybe even crazy, if you’re getting it on in daytime, with lots of people around you. It’s only up to you and your partner. Tip: Use a towel, or a sheet, sand is not a pleasant surprise in any hole :). 



In part 2 we’ll talk about rooftops, playgrounds, offices and more. Stay tuned.